We feel different kind of love toward our parents,
friends, pets and relationships. Love is divided into three main qualities,
attraction, closeness and commitment.
Attraction:
Attraction is about physical contact and our desire. We man usually
attracted to a girl that is simple, beautiful and has a sense of manner. There
is many way to explain attraction. Attraction without closeness is like a crush,
you don’t know them, but you like how they look and how they act. Clothing is
also a part of attraction, it give people on how they think you are and give
some clues for who you are.
Closeness: Closeness without attraction is something
you feel from your best friends and families or maybe relative, you have shared
thoughts with them. If you were for example a boy and has a best friend that is
a girl, it is possible that you might feel some attraction toward them. This
can lead to a very big risk. If the girl doesn’t feel the same way towards you
it is very possible that you might lose your relationship as a best friend, but
you should give it a shot.
Commitment: This is the promise or decision to stick
by the person that you love through ups and down of the relationship.
Relationship of girlfriend or a boyfriend is very
likely combined with these three qualities.
In life there are many things to see and experience.
You got time to wait for the right person that you would want to spend the rest
of your life with and this is worth waiting for. Don’t feel down when you get
turn down from someone you like try learning from it and maybe someday you
could use the things that you’ve learned. A human may fall in love one to ten
times or more before they could find the right person for them. Love is a weird
feeling, but good at the same time. You know you’re in love when you feel these
feelings.
Don’t fight love, go with the flow. Fighting love can
lead to the feelings of hate. There are many decisions to make when you’re in
love, but choose what’s the best for you. Jealousness is also part of love or
maybe the negative part of love. You feel irritation and angriness when your
jealous, but don’t worry this is normal. If you don’t feel jealous anymore when
someone is flirting with your love one like maybe boyfriend then I guess it
mean that you lost the love you had for them.
There is many ways to fall in love, but most of them
are love at first sight. Love at first sight is a feeling when you see someone
for the first time and you fell in love with them and your heart starting
beating really fast. This happen because you, yourself like how they look and
how they dress themselves and how they act. This feeling is not rare at all,
most of us have felt it once or twice in life, but if you haven’t felt it well
don’t worry the time will come.